Needless to say, you do not need a condom while having hot phone sex. The fact that you don’t physically meet the person you talk to – unless you want to of course – also minimizes any physical risk. It is also impossible to contract any sexually transmittable diseases via the telephone. You can talk about nasty kinky stuff without the fear of judgement or rejection.
You are in complete control of the pace at which the relationship develops. If things are going to fast or too slow communicate this. Gay men appreciate honest communication just as much as anybody else. The positive point here is that you have the power here. You can choose when you take the relationship to the next level.
Should you find that there is no connection with the person you are talking to on the chat line, you just end the conversation in a polite and friendly way, and simply call someone else. There are so many people to choose from. There is no limit to the number of people you can call in a day. Additionally, the advantage of having a local chat line number makes it easier to meet other gay men in your area.
When having phone sex you are free of any uncomfortable feelings you may have in a physical situation. You also have total freedom to be creative with your telephone love making. Words can be a very powerful medium to express yourself emotionally and of course sexually.
Another tip is to compliment the person you are talking to. Complimenting someone is a fantastic ice breaker. The person you are speaking to will feel safer when they are comfortable with you.
I find it very sexy when I feel safe with a gay man. It make me feel safe to take the next step.
Your next step is to pick up the phone and call to start meeting gay men in your area.
